In FROM PATRIARCHY TO PARADISE, Jerry Schaefer delivers a bold critique of patriarchal systems while charting an optimistic course toward a more balanced future. Part historical analysis, part memoir, and part spiritual guidebook, this compelling work examines how patriarchy has influenced human development from prehistoric times through the present day. Schaefer argues that the real problem isn’t just patriarchy itself, but rather the thinking patterns that created and perpetuate it—observing that “we’re swimming in a patriarchal ocean. We don’t ‘see’ it or ‘know’ it because it envelops us. In a similar way, a fish doesn’t ‘know’ or ‘see’ water.”

The book is divided into four main parts, beginning with an exploration of early human history and the emergence of patriarchal systems. Schaefer provides accessible overviews of key historical periods, from hunter-gatherer societies through the Agricultural Revolution and into classical civilizations. He traces how “the patriarchal tradition came out of the Old Testament” and has shaped civilization ever since, creating a world “characterized by greed, competition, and violence.”

A central theme running throughout this book is the interplay between consciousness and conditioning. Schaefer contends that awakening to higher consciousness is key to breaking free from patriarchal patterns, suggesting that transformation occurs through a profound shift in awareness. The most compelling sections are often the most personal, particularly Schaefer’s candid discussion of his own struggles with ingrained patriarchal patterns. For instance, the chapter on “The Problem with Breasts” offers a remarkably honest examination of his journey to overcome objectification and develop a more holistic way of seeing women. As he reflects, “Seeing a woman in her totality, as an actual person, diminishes and eventually can erase the compulsion of seeing a woman’s sexuality first.”

While Schaefer’s critiques of patriarchal systems are often sharp, his tone remains notably hopeful. Rather than simply outright condemning patriarchy, he explores how both men and women have been shaped by these systems and suggests paths toward healing. He argues that “consciousness is increasing on a personal and on a collective level,” and that we are witnessing “the re-birth of ourselves and the Earth.” The book also provides a unique integration of personal transformation and societal change; Schaefer’s vision of paradise is not a utopian fantasy but a practical possibility achieved through heightened awareness and conscious choice.

Some readers may find the spiritual aspects of Schaefer’s solution challenging to embrace, particularly his consistent emphasis on consciousness and presence as key to overcoming patriarchal patterns. Additionally, the book’s reliance on broad historical generalizations may frustrate those seeking a more academic treatment. Still, even skeptics will likely find value in Schaefer’s careful (and often thought-provoking) analysis of how patriarchal thinking shapes our world and relationships.

Through its unique blend of historical analysis, personal narrative, and earned wisdom, Jerry Schaefer’s FROM PATRIARCHY TO PARADISE offers readers both a clear-eyed critique of patriarchal systems and an inspiring vision of conscious change.

~James Wesikittel for IndieReader